As many people get ready for a long holiday weekend of family goodness, I must warn you that while I wish everyone the best for it…..this entry (like many here) will not fit the mold of celebration.
But as I prepare for my own oh-so-enthralling holiday of mostly solitude, I’ve been reminded even more (especially as I watch a Miami Vice marathon on TV as we speak) of where my life path has taken things. And sadly, how I peaked at 10.
No, not 2010. Age 10.
The fall of ’84 to the summer of ’85. Met a new best friend to start the school year. Got a computer for christmas. Had my first year of Little League, which ended with my best game of the year as we won the tournament championship against the league’s best team. Overall, the goody good suburban ’80s kiddom existence was in full swing.
Those good times did not last long.
Matt (the best friend) moved away soon after. Then before I knew it, it was time for junior high to begin, which set the tone for my often miserable and outcast teen years.
And even during my freshman year in college (which was amazing and maybe the best year of my life), there was still a hole eating away at me b/c of how I was such a late bloomer with dating and sex. I’ve written before about how that was the beginning of the eventual horrible battle with depression that has haunted me ever since.
So even with all the success I often had otherwise in life during my 20s and early 30s, that battle still kept a huge cloud overhead. And since then, well, play bingo with any of my prior entries to quickly learn how things have been since.
When you add it all up, that’s how it’s easy to argue that my life peaked at such a young age. It’s a sobering thought, but one that looms to be acknowledged.
Especially as I continue to struggle so badly with trying to move forward.